The "Friendamily" Gap: Navigating the Holidays as an Immigrant

I’m curious to know how other expats feel right now. In Ireland, Christmas is all about those big, bustling family reunions. It’s beautiful to witness, but as an immigrant, it can be a tough reminder of what’s missing.

My "family" is a global network of friends. We talk constantly, but we’re separated by oceans and life paths. Lately, it feels even more poignant; our parents’ generation has passed on, and we’re the ones left holding the traditions in foreign lands while our 20-something kids start finding their own feet.

I love my life in Ireland, and I’m grateful for the family I do have here—so why does this season always leave me looking for more? If you’re spending the holidays away from your "home" or your "tribe," I’d love to hear how you’re feeling.